Wednesday, September 24, 2025

The True Legacy of Charlie Kirk by Phillip Gulley, a Quaker Minister

 


Since the shooting death of Charlie Kirk, I’ve read numerous editorials on the topic, all of them beginning with a denunciation of gun violence. I hate gun violence as much as the next Quaker. We haven’t yet figured out how to feed the world, but we know how to kill everyone in the world 130 times over, thanks to guns and bombs. I take this personally, not wanting the people I love to die even once, let alone another 129 times. What I knew about Charlie Kirk, I didn’t like, but there are other people I don’t like, including myself some days, and that’s no reason to celebrate death. His wife and children liked him, their grief is real and profound, so I do not have it in me to be dismissive of his death.

I would have preferred Charlie Kirk live his three score and ten. I would have preferred he realize the damage his words had done, apologized for them, and worked to unify our nation, not divide it. That will never happen now. Instead, his every utterance will be remembered, celebrated, and sanctified by his followers. His more odious quotes will take on the weight and authority of Scripture for some. It is already happening, which doesn’t alter the fact that they are unworthy of permanence or veneration.

Since I don’t have a blood fetish, I didn’t go in search of video clips showing his death. I did however see several pictures of the audience cheering him on moments before he died. They were predominantly young, male, and white. This was on a college campus in Utah, after all, which among all the states has one of the lowest percentages of Black citizens. This was prime territory for Kirk, who had said, among other things, “If I see a Black pilot, I'm going to be like, 'Boy, I hope he's qualified.” Kirk referred to Supreme Court Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson as an "affirmative action pick" who "did not have the brain processing power to otherwise be taken really seriously". Never mind that Kirk dropped out of the community college he attended while Jackson graduated from Harvard University, magna cum laude, then went on to attend Harvard Law School, graduating in 1996 with a Juris Doctor, cum laude.

America has had its share of racists and Charlie Kirk was no different than any of them, except that his rise to prominence paralleled the ascendency of Donald Trump, the most bigoted president of the past hundred years. Their confluence formed the perfect storm of prejudice and hatred. In short, I held little affection for the man and his message while he lived and see no need to reconsider my opinion in his death. In life, he was not a saint; in death, he is not a martyr. He is, unfortunately, a textbook example of oblivious privilege, monetized cruelty, and unprincipled greed.

Most of all, I loathe Kirk’s habit of convincing young, white, males that their lack of success was the fault of women and racial minorities, who because of their gender and race deprived deserving white males of the opportunities due them. Rejected for entrance into West Point, he blamed unnamed minority cadets who allegedly took his spot. His go-to response to every setback and failure, which we all experience, was to blame the nearest woman, Black, or immigrant. In so doing, he taught millions of young white males to do the same.

Had I been rejected from West Point, I would have assumed it was because I graduated 77th out of 78 in the Class of 79. I would not have laid the blame on an anonymous “other.” I would have suspected the deficiency was mine, and mine alone. But now, thanks in no small part to Charlie Kirk, a generation of young males have been given the convenient excuse to blame their difficulties on those who don’t look like them, pee like them, or believe like them.

At the time of his death, Charlie Kirk was pulling in millions of dollars a year as a speaker, podcaster, and the executive director of Turning Point USA. To listen to his long list of grievances, one would have thought he was living in a tent under a bridge. I don’t know how the alleged DEI cadet who took his place at West Point fared, but I bet they’re not as wealthy as Charlie Kirk, who earned $50,000 to $100,000 for a typical appearance, where he laid all our nation’s ills at the feet of gays, trans folk, women, and racial minorities.

A woman I know wrote on her Facebook page that Charlie Kirk was killed while engaged in the ministry God had called him to. I grew up with this woman, and in every other regard she is a kind and lovely person, but now is a cultist, and like all cultists has been conditioned to believe absurdities. In the months ahead, we will see efforts made to enshrine Kirk’s words and worldview. Somewhere a statue or memorial will be built, and people will flock to see it. But his admirers are glorifying what should never be glorified—falsehoods, hatred, chauvinism, all masquerading as gospel truth. Others will read his words, now preserved for posterity, and find nothing in them meriting celebration or elevation.

Charlie Kirk did one thing well. He succeeded in turning millions of people against other people who would never hurt them. It wasn’t a trans person who killed Charlie Kirk. It wasn’t an immigrant, or a Black man, or a liberated woman. It was someone so like Kirk himself, so casually violent, so full of entitlement, that the death of those with whom he disagreed seemed a reasonable option. It was Kirk, after all, who called the execution of gay people "God's perfect law when it comes to sexual matters.” It appears his alleged assassin had persuaded himself the death of Kirk was also, in some warped and twisted way, a final solution.

It is believed by some that Charlie Kirk aspired to the presidency. At one time, his rhetoric would have sunk his chances, but after Trump I now realize bigotry is no barrier to public office. In too many circles, it is mandatory. It took Trump mere minutes to blame Kirk’s death on the “radical left,” thirty-three hours before the alleged killer had been identified and captured. This was the political legacy Charlie Kirk hoped to build upon. The true legacy of Charlie Kirk isn’t the millions of dollars he earned, but the millions of people he persuaded that evil was good, hate was acceptable, and that our struggles were always the fault of someone else and never ourselves.

by Phillip Gulley, a Quaker Minister 

Monday, September 15, 2025

Monday....



We got a little rain last night and there may be more coming this afternoon...YAY!  It's been a good day so far.  I was up early, I loaded and ran the dishwasher, wrapped a package and took it up to Franklin to the post office and I noticed the trees are changing colors! 

 I paid some bills, did some laundry and talked to my neighbor across the street.  My new neighbors are all so nice!   

I got a few things that shipped from Walmart.....Dove has come out with apple and caramel scented body wash and other products...I thought I'd try the body wash...I'll let you know how I like it or not............

I also got a few candles for Fall....I have a couple mulled cider candles and then I got these 2.....

This one is farm apple and the outside of the pumpkin  is like suede....

I also ordered some Fall books today.....which I will show you when they come in.  Some were from the book list I posted yesterday plus I ordered The Funeral Ladies of Ellerie County.  Miss Merry raved about this book and so I had to get it! 

I've got to go find a Pumpkin Spice Latte recipe that is a copycat recipe of Starbuck's PSL.....I will be making that very soon!

I hope you're having a good Monday!  TTYL!

Happy Trails!!!

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Sunday, September 14, 2025

Great week!!!

It's been a good start to Fall (meteorological Fall that is, which starts on September 1st).  It's very hot and dry here although we had a little rain yesterday.  They delivered propane on Monday, and I called Generac whole house generators and they're coming out on the 19th.  I spent the week working on finances and budget and discovered that my house insurance had gone up by 1/3!  I called the agent and told her she needed to find me another as I was not paying that amount!  Anybody have any suggestions?  

I went uptown for some errands and discovered there  had been a fire in our little mall that is connected to the grocery store.  There was a new restaurant that had opened and they're thinking that may have caused the fire.  Not sure when or if things will reopen.

I made some potato soup and jello with fruit, signed up for a drawing on Nicole Sporl's flosstube channel, and cut and hemmed all the Halloween XS projects.  I watched Iowa lose last week to Iowa State but last night they won, at home against UMass.  Iowa's been in the 90's and even warmer than here at times.  Hopefully we will all cool off soon....I  don't like fire danger.

I also spent some time on Fall videos  on You Tube...especially Shelby's Cottage.....so cute!  Her decorating and prepping for Fall is so inspiring and cozy!  

Yesterday I ordered groceries which they delivered today.   I've been doing some handwork and here it is...........I finally finished last years Christmas socks........

I worked on Hazel a bit but needed to set her aside for the Halloween ornaments and some Fall stitching...here is Halloween ornament #1.  I'm not sure if I will make 2 the same or choose a different one for the 2nd.  It's more interesting for me to stitch a different one the second time but we'll see.  The ghost is the one I am working on.  This is 32 count so it is small.......I can see it with readers on.  I refuse to get expensive lights and magnifiers....if I can't see it I won't stitch  it.

This my Fall stitch carried over from last year.  I worked on it this week but need to order some more floss........ 

I started my witch silhouette but there wasn't enough to bother showing you.  I still work on my crochet blanket in the evening and I've been knitting dishcloths when I watch football as they are simple to work on.

That's all for this week except for a few Fall inspirations...........BTW, the meteorological Fall starts September 1st!  Pay no attention to the 90 degree weather....just turn up the AC until you have to put a sweater on and drink something warm.  


 


Happy Trails!!!

Sunday, September 7, 2025

It's football season!!!

 My favorite time of year!   I didn't get as much crafting done because I've been watching football.  I cannot do many crafts while I'm watching the games but I did start on some knitted dish cloths.  It was a good week as I finally finished cleaning my desk drawers.  I threw out so much that the drawers are pretty empty now....YAY!!!   I also  ordered and got a new  paper shredder that does 8 full sheets at a time and credit cards too.  I am getting rid of all those papers I used to save to burn in the Fall.  No more burning needed and I can get rid of things right away.  It works slick!  Plus, it came in white.  I am so sick of black everything which always shows the dust.

I've started on the bookshelves in the family room and I have a box full of books ready to go to the thrift store.  That will be my project this week along with updating my budget.  The cleaning gal is a big help with cleaning bathrooms and changing sheets and vacuuming...things that are hard on my back.

This week I made progress on Hazel.........mostly working on her BIG tail!

I received the pattern and floss for the annual Halloween  ornaments for the grands....not sure which ones I will choose....I still have to get material, hopefully from my stash.

I went uptown for a few groceries and they had good sized mums for $5.99 so I picked one up for the front door.........I still have a hard time getting decent pictures with my phone but it's better than nothing.
I hope you all had a good week and all the great cool weather my Northern friends are having....this coming week is supposed to be back in the 90's here in AR!  I only see robins here in the Spring and the Fall and this weekend thy were all over my front yard.  They won't stay...they go farther South but it's a good sign! Fall is truly on the horizon!

Happy Trails!!!

Sunday, August 31, 2025

It's Fall Y'all!!!

 Okay, so maybe it's not officially Fall and the temps may not reflect it but in my little world....it's Fall!!!

Plus, I'm not the only one.  All the floss tubers on You Tube are showing their plans for Fall stitching and Halloween and beyond.  So, I spent yesterday afternoon digging through my patterns and XS WIPs and I have some plans set in place.  As for what I did this past week it's the same as usual for crafting.  I'm almost done with the foot of my 2nd Christmas sock, I'm on row 8 of 14? of my crochet blanket.  Every evening I attach a square and I also crochet the next square to attach the following night.  I've been XS'ing on Hazel the squirrel and I will keep working on her.  She's such a fun stitch.  Here's an update on her from this past week........    

For my Thanksgiving stitch I'll be working on Thomas who I started last year.......I didn't get very far last year....... 
For my Halloween I'll be stitching this witch which looks to be a quick stitch...we'll see 
For the grands Halloween ornaments I ordered a Prairie Schooler pattern and floss.......I have plenty of fabric........not sure which ones I will choose yet.

and last but not least, I'll be stitching these ornaments for their Christmas.  We'll see how far I get with all these projects! LOL!

 

 This pattern was gifted to me and the witch was a free pattern and the rest I had so all I had to buy was the Halloween chart and floss which was not bad as there were only a few flosses that I needed.

The part I don't like is the kitting up, measuring the fabric, cutting and zigzagging the edges but it has to be done!  

I also need to write down the College and NFL games.  I can only listen to the college games and I only get to watch some NFL games but it's still fun!  I also need to start getting out my Fall decorations.  I love it!  

I felt great this week.  Better than ever.  The only thing wrong now is I perforated my ear drum.  It's probably from blowing my nose which I do a lot in the morning.  It will heal on it's own but you're not supposed to blow your nose.....that's going to be a problem!  Oh well, it could be worse. 

Do you  have plans for Labor Day?  I have my daily chores but I plan on crafting all weekend.  I did not get any more quilt squares cut so I am hoping to get some of that done.  Have a great week!

Happy Trails!!!
   
 

Sunday, August 24, 2025

I spoke too soon!

 Remember my last post on August 3rd?  I was feeling great and getting so much accomplished and I had big plans!!!  Well, I got sick for 2 weeks and accomplished nothing.  I had to cancel my hair appointment and the cleaning gal and ended up at the doctor's office.  Not sure if it was diverticulitis....that was 3 years ago and this wasn't as bad and I have no idea what caused it as I am so careful with my diet.  But, he gave me antibiotics and by the next morning the pain had stopped.  I am still taking them, I'm on a liquid diet....I've lost 15 lbs in the last month.  With the pain I had no appetite and was so tired I just wanted to sleep and I did.....a lot! But I am feeling chipper again....PTL and my doctor.  So, hopefully I will get back to it!

I have started a new cross stitch by Stacy Nash.  She has a whole series called Animal Crackers and they are the cutest.  This is my first one.  I am  using 25 count even weave from Lori Holt and it is a dream to stitch on especially if you do the sewing method without a hoop.  I chose Miss Hazel because I had an Aunt Hazel.  She married my Uncle Buck when he was 60 and he had been a bachelor all his life.  I loved  my Uncle Buck and we used to drive the country roads and go visit my grandparents old house.  We were going to buy it together someday.  He had a gas station and I used to walk down there and get a free pop and hang out with him.  So, when he married Miss Hazel I was not happy about it and I probably wasn't very nice to her.  I was very young though, but I always felt bad about my feelings for her. I hope she made him happy because he was a wonderful man and I adored him.  He had the bluest eyes I've ever seen...it was like they glowed.  He was my Mother's older brother.  Anyway, I hope Aunt Hazel forgives me and likes this little Miss Hazel stitched in her honor.  

I also did some cleaning and clearing of my desk and went through paperwork to get ready to burn (when it cools off outside).  I started (barely) on a new little table topper quilt.  There are 4 or 5 fabrics and it is a kit from Kim Diehl.  The first fabric (black) requires 1 2" X 2" square, and 128 1 1/2 " X 1 1/2 " squares.  I've pressed the fabrics and started cutting.....I have 28 of the 128 squares cut of just the first material!  I can't stand over the cutting board very long as my back gives out so I think I will try cutting some each day to break it up. 

This week will be busy trying to do all those things I didn't do while I was sick.  I am about 1/2 way down the foot of my 2nd Christmas sock, and I'm still crocheting the BIG crocheted blanket.  I hope you are all well and happy and have things to look forward to.  I am reading Joanna Fluke's Hannah Swensen  murder mysteries.  I think I'm on book #8.  I have already met my Good Reads goal of 62 books for 2025.

Happy Trails!!!
     
 

     

 

Sunday, August 3, 2025

Lookin' good in the neighborhood!!!

 Hi everyone!  How are you?  Fine I hope.  I am feeling great...the best I've felt in a long time.  I have more energy (they did up my thyroid  medicine which might have something to do with it).  Things are getting done around here finally!  I do have a cleaning gal that really helps me stay on top of things that are hard for me to do such as cleaning tub, toilets, and changing sheets....anything that requires bending over and/or lifting heavy objects. But I'm feeling stronger every day.  PTL!

I've got lots of projects in the works that I want to do or at least plan for.  I'm seriously thinking of getting one of those backup power generators.  If your  power goes out it automatically kicks in.  You don't  have to do anything.  They're expensive but I can't forget the last ice storm we had here and people died.  I don't want to try to mess with a gasoline generator or having to unplug and plug certain things in so I am thinking I might go for it and then no worries, hopefully.  Plus, it is really hard for me to  bring wood in and start the fireplace.  I may change that to propane also. 

 I'm also looking at replacing my front railing with a cable wire railing and I need a new storm door too.  Right now I have an old wobbly rod iron railing....I hate rod iron anything.

and here's the storm door I'm thinking about.....I'd be getting cream or sandstone color.  
 

In addition to all that...I made a hair appointment to get my hair cut and a perm (soft not tight to my head).  I remember when I was hospitalized for diverticulitis, I couldn't fix my hair because I had all this equipment attached to me and since I wear my hair in a bun, I couldn't fix it.  I'm thinking if I ever end up in the hospital, a shorter perm would be easier plus it was hard to put my hair  up when I hurt my back.   We'll see how I like it....it's sort of scary.  I haven't been to a beauty shop in years!  My neighbor goes to the same gal and her hair always looks nice so wish me luck!

Meanwhile, I continue loading the car with more stuff for the thrift store and it's almost ready for another trip.  I cleaned my front door last week, bought filters for furnace and AC which I will  replace this week. I've also finished up some crafting projects..........

a drawstring bag....

I'm going through this book which has 12 projects.....next is pillowcases and with each project you learn a new technique so by the time you finish the book you should have learned a lot about sewing.  

I decided to iron my finished XS projects and hang them from my dad's old pant hangers.....so they won't get buried and I am reminded that I need to get frames for them...


I finished my Sally Spencer sampler.....I love it and I love the colors she chose for it. 

Now that I've finished a few projects, I'll be starting some more.  I'm still working on the BIG blanket, and my second Christmas sock.  I'll be starting a new XS project that I've had plus a small quilt by Kim Diehl.  I'll show you next week and hopefully I can get around to everyone to visit this week!

 

(it's supposed to be you're....did these people not pay attention in school?)

Happy Trails!!!